When Opportunity Slides Past You: What a Simple Moment Teaches Us About Work, Talent, and Leadership
- Or Bar Cohen
- Dec 1
- 3 min read
In a short video, a dog waits patiently at the top of a water slide —only for another dog to rush past him and slide down first. It’s a playful moment, but it captures a more profound truth about organizations, leadership, and careers: opportunity rarely rewards patience alone. It rewards movement, visibility, and readiness.
In many workplaces, talented people wait quietly for the “right moment,” the “right approval, ”or the “right opening.”But research in organizational psychology consistently shows that opportunity is not only about competence. It’s about proactive positioning — making sure your readiness is visible long before the moment arrives.
Let’s break down what this teaches us.

1. Waiting is not a strategy - proactivity is
Studies on career mobility (Seibert et al., 2001; Crant, 2000) show that proactive employees receive significantly more promotions, opportunities, and leadership roles. Not because they are better, but because they are seen.
Just like the dog waiting at the top of the slide, many employees hope that patience will pay off. But workplaces reward those who make their intent and readiness unmistakable.
Practical takeaway:
Make your readiness visible before the opportunity arrives: speak up, share, volunteer for stretch tasks, or update your professional presence.
2. In organizations, timing is never neutral
Organizational behavior research shows that timing is a political and social resource (Pfeffer, 2010). Even if you are talented, passively waiting can let someone else — sometimes someone less qualified -“slide first.”
This isn’t unfairness. It’s how dynamic systems work: gaps are filled by whoever moves.
Practical takeaway:
Organizations notice momentum. Slow, silent waiting gives others space to move faster.
3. Leadership readiness is judged long before the role opens
Leadership development studies (Zenger & Folkman, 2015) show that leaders are not chosen based on a single act, but on a visible pattern of behavior over time.
Suppose you behave like “the one who waits,” you’ll be seen as supportive but not necessarily as a driver. If you show initiative, curiosity, and movement, you’ll be seen as someone who can lead.
Practical takeaway:
Signal leadership before you hold the title. Small visible actions matter.
4. Talent strategy must prevent “slide theft.”
From an HR and organizational development standpoint, this phenomenon appears everywhere: high performers not being recognized, quiet talent being overtaken by louder colleagues, and succession plans collapsing because visibility was unclear.
This is not a people problem. It’s a system design problem.
Practical takeaway for organizations:
Build talent processes that surface readiness early: competency mapping, internal marketplaces, growth conversations, and transparent mobility paths.
5. Careers thrive on motion, not waiting
Career adaptability research (Savickas, 2013) shows that clarity emerges through action, not prolonged waiting.
In other words, if you stand at the top long enough, someone else will slide. If you move, the path opens.
Conclusion: Don’t wait at the top of the slide
If you’re a professional: Take one visible step forward this week, even a small one. Momentum always pays off more than patience.
If you’re a leader or HR professional: Design systems that don’t reward noise over talent. Give your people room to move - before someone else cuts the line.
If your organization needs support strengthening leadership readiness, internal mobility, or talent strategy - or if you want to build stronger visibility and career momentum — feel free to reach out.
References
Crant, J. M. (2000). Proactive behavior in organizations. Journal of Management.Pfeffer, J. (2010). Power: Why Some People Have It and Others Don't.Savickas, M. L. (2013). Career construction theory.Seibert, S. E., Kraimer, M. L., & Crant, J. M. (2001). Proactive personality and career success. Journal of Applied Psychology.Zenger, J., & Folkman, J. (2015). The Extraordinary Leader.



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